Meir Ezra - The biggest barrier to a
successful career is not a lack of opportunities, the job market or your city.
The greatest problem in business is not marketing, other companies or the
economy. The greatest
source of stress in life is not money or the weather or any physical thing.
The biggest source of business
problems, career difficulties and personal stress is other people.
Specifically, antisocial people—people who are devious, mean-spirited, cruel,
hostile or negative. People who oppose you, treat you with disrespect and cause
you trouble.
For example, one of the most
famous antisocial personalities was Adolf Hitler. Hitler loved children and
pets. He was a vegetarian who neither smoked nor drank. He was kind and
considerate to the ladies, secretaries and chauffeurs. Most people thought he
was a nice guy. You would never suspect he organized the deaths of millions of
people.
Antisocial personalities can
be doctors, lawyers, politicians, business leaders, police officers, newspaper
reporters, employees, men, women, old, young . . . anyone. They can be family
members, spouses and colleagues of any type. You probably know more than one
antisocial person.
When the antisocial is openly
nasty or critical of you, it is easy to see how they can ruin your life. What
is worse are antisocial persons who hide their true intentions. These types are
the most destructive as it’s hard to see who is stabbing you in the back.
When you handle an antisocial
so he or she can no longer affect you, you feel great! You feel stable, more
confident and in better control. Becoming a success is much, much easier.
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